A Thought on Why Unity is Perhaps Difficult

Have you ever been wrong about something, I mean completely wrong? Sometimes we believe something is true only based on theories with no empirical evidence to back that our belief is factual. I don't know about you, but it has happened to me. Of course, faith is a little bit like that. In the Book of Hebrews 11:1, the author wrote: “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” We can probably spend our entire lives’ trying to explain how we can have a conviction something that is invisible is real. However, the fact is that many of us that believe in what this verse says disagree on many doctrinal levels, even though we really cannot prove anything we believe, but still somehow we have the conviction that we believe. If you ask me, the whole thing sounds a little crazy. If we can have faith, we can certainly have enough faith in the fact that we can be one, as Jesus prayed in John 17:21.  Maybe we should start asking ourselves why is it that we cannot have ecumenism when it is so easy for us to believe in other things.

My hope is that everyone simply gets along. Alienation and isolation is usually not a good thing. And, many times unity doesn't happen because of our imperfect humanity. Regardless, I often think about what it is that prevents unity. For instance, is it possible to be silently critical without being confrontational with others when we make the assumption that we are on the correct side of the fence. The foregoing may be a social instigator behavior. One can make the assumption that one is more tolerant, even if it is not implied or intended to be perceived as such, it can be interpreted or perceived as such on the other side of the fence. And, this can be divisive. In other words, another Christian can think something like; wow…this guy thinks he is holier than God. Human interaction or no interaction can bring out subtle misunderstandings that are often mistaken for understanding. The bottom line is that we are very complex beings with even more complex minds on the social level. Even on social media such as Facebook people disagree, and unfriend each other for perhaps some really dumb things when they probably agree on 99% of many other issues. Miscommunication is perhaps what often is happening when people disagree. If we sometimes just take a little extra time to ask the other what they meant, we might reach an understanding quicker that we might know. I know that not all matters are the same, and the foundations for why we believe them are perhaps a little different, but that doesn’t mean it is impossible to reach an understanding. We Cubans often use the phrase “no es fácil” which translated into English means “it’s not easy.” The other day I was speaking in Spanish to a friend, and I remember using the phrase. My friend responded by saying “yes, it’s not easy, but I don’t think it is that difficult either." He was right, we can perceive that some things are difficult, but it doesn’t mean that they really are until we try. Hopefully, you understand what I am trying to say, and if not feel free to ask questions. Blessings and I hope you enjoyed reading!

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